1. Renounce the need to always be right
Many people hate the idea of making a mistake and want to be always right, even at the risk of entering into a wonderful relationship or causing much stress and pain to themselves and others. Simply not worth it. Whenever you feel the need "urgent" to jump into a discussion about who's right and who's wrong, ask yourself this: "I prefer to be right or prefer to be a gentle person?". What gain a verbal conflict, which left at my face leaves the "stage" with a bitter taste and a sense of disappointment?
2. Renounce the need for control
Be willing to give up the need to always control what happens to you and those around you: circumstances, events, people, etc.. Whether they are loved, work colleagues or just strangers you meet on the street, let them be. Lets all things and people to be just as good and see what you feel. "Leaving things to be, everything will flow smoothly as it should," said Lao Tzu.
3. Come Cancel
Give up your need to blame others for what you have or do not have, for what you feel or not feel. Stop giving up your powers and begin to take responsibility for your life.
4. Renounce self-defeating
How many people hurt themselves because of their negative mentality, polluted and repetitive self-defeating? Do not believe everything your mind tells you, especially if it is something negative and you self-destruct. You're better than that. "The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. However, misused, it becomes very destructive, "said Eckhart Tolle.
5. Renounce your beliefs limited
Give up your beliefs about what you can or can not do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on you'll never allow your limited beliefs keep you trapped. Open your wings and fly! "A belief is not an idea held by the mind, is an idea that holds the mind," said Elly Roselle.
6. Quit whining
Give up your need to constantly complain about those many, many, many things, people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. No one can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad unless you allow it. No situation that triggers those feelings is to blame, but how you choose to look. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.
7. Quit luxury of criticism
Give up the need to criticize things, events or people who are different from you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. Everyone wants to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is desired by all of us.
8. Renounce the need to impress others
Stop trying so hard to be something you're not just like others to like you. Things do not work that way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something you're not, when you give up all your masks, when you truly accept, I find that people are attracted to you, without making any this effort.
9. Dropped the idea to resist change
Change is good. Change will help you go from A to B. Changing will help you make improvements in your life and the lives of those around you. "Watch bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls" Joseph Campbell said.
10. Quit labeling
Stop label those people, things and events that do not understand that being weird and different and try to open your mind a little bit. Minds only works when open. "Highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you know nothing," said Wayne Dyer.
11. Renounce your fears
Fear is an illusion, there is, you created. Everything is in your mind. If you right inside, the outside will be exactly as it should. "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself," said Franklin D. Roosevelt.
12. Quit excuses
We often limited because many excuses that we use. Instead of working to grow and improve our life and spirit, stuck, lying to us alone, using all kinds of excuses, excuses in 99.9% of cases are not real.
13. Quit past
It's hard. We know. Especially when history looks much better than the present and the future looks so scary, but we must take into account that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. Past you crave, you dream of the past, has been ignored by you when you were present. Quit fooling yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey, not a destination. It's good to have a clear vision of the future, prepare yourself, but always be present.
14. Renounce attachment
It is a concept that for many of us it is hard to understand, but it's not impossible. You're getting better and better with time and more practice. When you detach from all things, become so quiet, tolerant, gentle and serene. You get to a place where you'll be able to understand all those things without pain. A feeling beyond words.
15. Quit living your life according to the expectations of others
Far too many people live a life that does not belong to it live. They live their lives based on what others think is good for them, living life according to what parents say it is best for them depending on what friends say, enemies and their teachers that it is good for them. These people ignore their inner voice, inner calling. I'm so busy making them like others that lose control of their lives. Look what makes them happy, what they want, what they need and eventually forget who they really are. You only live once, you have to live, to own and especially do not let the opinions of others hinder you on your way.